When facing danger we are programmed to flight or fight. How about adding the third reaction: kindness.
|What card are you going to play?|
Although the animal brain in us makes us choose only from two options: flight of fight, we have the third one available at any time: being kind. It is more difficult because it does not come so automatically but ultimately it is much more rewarding. Kindness is the simple act of love and puts an end to the desire of revenge. I shall try it more often :)